Saturday, February 4, 2012

the wedding: the dress


After all us girls had our faces and hair done...it was off to the church! 

the wedding: the dress

 I remember getting to the church...and starting to feel SO nervous.  I tend to get really quiet, and I have a hard time talking.  Luckily, I had the best group of girls to keep me sane, and they took care of everything while I was going crazy.  

  

My sweet Mama and I...


 My sweet mother-in-law looking on...love her.  


Earrings...


  Funny story...the first time my Mama and Sarah met...they were doing this exact same thing.  Sarah came with us to be my brother's date...and her dress needed some pinning.  So special that this same moment happened... 3 years later! 





I loved my girls dresses.... simple, black, and a blue ribbon around the middle.  


 Time to put on my dress!  





 Getting me all tied in...


 I love how all my girl's hands were on me at the same time... I was overwhelmed with their love and care that day. 





 Putting on my shoes and garter... 


These two pictures are by far some of my favorites from the whole day...just me and my girl...going to meet my man!  



As we came around the corner.... I saw my man standing and waiting for me..... and I could not WAIT to become his wife!


Friday, February 3, 2012

sometimes...

Sometimes....
life just gets away from you.

Sometimes...
I feel like I have SO much going on.

Sometimes...
I feel like I am not even living my life.

Sometimes...
I feel like I can't get a break.

Sometimes...
I forget to blog.

Sometimes...
I get sick.

Sometimes...
I deal with weird health issues.

Sometimes...
I deal with big and heavy issues in my marriage.

Sometimes...
I just don't have the energy to do.... anything.

The only thing that keeps me going is the fact that ALL the time,

I have a God who loves me.  Who cares about me.  Who protects me. 

And because of that....
I know....
this too shall pass. 

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

sometimes i wish...

Sometimes I wish I was more like my husband...

...he forgives so easily.  
     It takes me SO MUCH a little bit longer.  

...he rarely worries about things out of his control. 
     I worry all the time, about everything.  

... he knows how to relax.
     Something I have a hard time doing.  

...he knows how to just soak up the moment, and live in the moment.
     Again, something I have a hard time with.

...he always has time to hold my hand, kiss me, or give me hug.
     I rush.  Everything.

He balances me.  

And I love him. 

Sunday, January 22, 2012

the wedding: getting ready


 If you haven't read the wedding: the morning of, make sure you read it first!


the wedding: getting ready

After all of us girls relaxed, it was time to get this show on the road.

Warning:  LOTS of pictures ahead! 

Enter:  more Pepto-bismal and Imodium AD tablets.

My makeup girl, Courtney showed up to our hotel room and started in on trying to make me look presentable.  Bless her for covering up my dark circles and flushed cheeks; two things that seem to pop up when I am nervous.  She was also doing makeup for my four bridesmaids, which meant she had a lot to do, and not a lot of time!




 The rest of the girls dealt with my falling apart music situation (read: the guy in charge CANCELLED on my the morning of my wedding.  Nice.)  But, I picked my girls for a reason and they pulled together a playlist and saved the day. 

  

  
 We all fell in love with fake eyelashes.  Seriously...they made my eyes look HUGE.  



 My MOH had a slight problem with her dress, which made he purchase these chicken cutlets.  That is exactly what they looked like...ha!  However, she wasn't sure whether to get the small or medium... so she purchased both.  She passed them around so that each of us could see which one felt bigger.  Side note:  she ended up wearing the medium, and they did not fall out of bra during the ceremony.  For that, I am thankful. 



  




 After my eyelashes were safely secured ( I did NOT want to end up like Lucille Ball in Yours, Mine, and Ours...please tell me someone else cherishes that movie as much as I do! )
  



 I was starting to get really nervous...and had to keep reminding myself that IT WAS REALLY HAPPENING.  

 We all pulled out our tiaras from my bachelorette and proudly wore them, ensuring that we got as much value out of them as possible.  For some reason, I love these pictures.  I definitely felt like a princess.    




One of the consultants at the bridal shop quickly became a good friend and was sooo helpful during all of this.  She is the one who found me the PERFECT dress, fitted my handsome man in his tux, helped with deciding on colors, and was a great listening ear.  She SURPRISED me and came over during her lunch break to say hi... I had to keep myself from crying!  


She brought me over a little gift and card.  And that is when I cried.  Good thing my makeup girl was still there to fix up my eyes back up!


 She also brought over a beautiful bracelet for me to wear as my SOMETHING BORROWED.  She wore it on HER wedding day, and it just happened to match the earring that she helped me pick out.  It was SO beautiful and so special to wear it on my day!




After we had our faces on, we headed on down to get our hair done!  The same girl who usually does my hair was going to do my wedding hair, and for that I am so thankful.  I have WEIRD hair.  Fine, but thick.  Curly and frizzy in some places and straight in others.  We did a trial run a few weeks before and I was so excited to see it all together!  And yes, she has the most amazing tattoos.  Something I have *secretly* always wanted but could never ever put myself through.  So I just like to look.  



 While my Mama may not look too happy in this picture, it was taken RIGHT before a little bit of an emotional moment.  I think I got overwhelmed all of a sudden that it was REALLY happening...and happened to look at my Mom just as SHE was realizing.  Our eyes quickly welled up with tears...and so did Laurie's.  It was a very special moment for the three of us.. realizing that I was getting MARRIED in a few short hours!

 Sarah getting all curled up.  The great part about this salon is there are about 5 different people working so we could all get our hair done at the same time!

Sarah and I met in college as we lived on the same floor.  We quickly bonded over our love for baseball and discovered we grew up living about 10 minutes from each other, but had never met.   





 This is another one of my bridesmaid's Marissa, but we all know her at Missy.  We met our first day of junior high...and have been friends ever since.  Missy works for the Peace Corps, and used some of her vacation time to fly to Washington from the middle of the Jungle in South America to be in my wedding.  She flew in the day before and flew out the day after...but it was SO good to see her! 






 Sarah did a great job of documenting everything.  Or she was just super excited that she had gotten an iphone the day before.  One of the two.  


 SOOO much hairspray.   


Donna was another one of my bridesmaids.  She was also my 3rd and 4th grade teacher, mentor teacher during my student teaching, and now...I teach right next door to her.  She has been such an inspiration to me, and a wonderful example of a loving wife and amazing teacher.  I am so glad she got to stand next to me on my big day!


 Ahhh the first looks.  










 My veil was realllllly long... and I LOVED it.  I had to wrap it around my body in order to get out of the salon.

Next step.... TO THE CHURCH!